Signal #15 – Infrequent bumping is current

Read more about signs a girl loves you here.

She’s feeling bold enough to touch you and/or reciprocate your touch. When a woman is touching you, she is feeling turned-on and a bit frisky. If she’s warming to you while your arm grazes hers, for example, then the way she absorbs that touch feels very receptive and open and relaxed. Then check to see if her eyes wander away from you, downwards in a sweet and shy way. You can’t have a positive experience of excitement towards someone unless you feel relaxed around that person too.

In my experience as a dating coach, I can’t tell you how many women have told me how important it is that a guy listens to them. Certainly, it’s nice to hear that he is physically attracted to you, but if he’s not talking about your brain or your wit, you might wonder if all he wants is a fling.

Big, showy gestures have their place (we’re never going to complain if a guy sweeps us off to Paris on a mini-break…), but when a girl wants to show that she likes someone, it’ll be through the little details rather than anything grand. And she won’t just listen to reply like many people do in casual conversation, her responses will be thoughtful, show interest, and make you feel listened to. Perhaps not straight away, but as you get to know each other and feel more comfortable talking about things, she may direct the conversation to topics that show a level of intimacy or vulnerability. If a girl likes you, she will want to look her most attractive whenever you are around.

She touches her neck and plays together with her hair usually

• If she doesn’t even flinch when you get a bit too close to her personal space, that’s a sign she wants you close to her.
• If she’s laughing at all your attempts at jokes its because she wants you to feel good about yourself.
• With older, more experienced women, the playful touch never went away.

That kind of eye contact often feels more intense, and can even be a bit weird or uncomfortable. If you notice that she’s holding eye contact slightly longer than normal, she’s probably interested in you. If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you. If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign.

That is right – the fear of an over reaction to rejection has led women to avoid rejecting men publicly. The reason women are so polite in public spaces with men they don’t know is because they fear a negative reaction from the rejection of the men who are taking interest that is misplaced. Either way gentlemen, don’t waste away your time wondering; it plagues the mind with unfilled curiosity. Also keep in mind how talkative she is in a conversation before and after you join it. In return, she’ll scoot on over and try to squeeze her way into the conversation.

If she’s outgoing: On the other hand, she might CREATE opportunities for more closeness with you, so that she can be near you and feel how strong and safe you are. If she’s shy: If she feels this too, she might be SHY to be close to you (even while maybe blushing and feeling happy) precisely because she knows it would excite her even more. It’s been that way for years, and the thought that she might feel the same excites you to no end. Since you’ve just met, you’re not sure if she’s smiling extra because she’s talking to YOU or if she is just a smiley person in general. You’re wracking your brain for how to interpret a sure sign in those early moments of just having met each other.

– If she has spoken to her friends about you, they may also try to get know to you to make sure you’re a good guy and suitable for her. If when you come over to them, they make an effort to leave you two alone, then it’s pretty obvious that they know that she likes you. This could be an unexpected compliment, or you could playfully touch her on the arm. Or she may direct her attention towards others she’s more romantically interested in. She may act annoyed when you disrupt her or take her time away.

At first, you just need her to like you enough to talk with you. You won’t know if she really likes you until you get to know each other a bit better. If she answers you, she likes you enough to acknowledge your existence.

So before you slap him for looking at your chest (my eyes are up here, buddy), know that this is another sign that he is interested in you romantically. Realize that what might come off as self-centered — like him doing all the talking, or not asking you questions — might just be a case of the nerves, so think twice before writing him off as not interested.